H e l l o!

I'm Lala Rahim. Blogger based in Malaysia. Just a girl who never stopped to appreciate the beauty above me.

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H e l l o!

I'm Lala Rahim. Blogger based in Malaysia. Just a girl who never stopped to appreciate the beauty above me.

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For advertising, collaboration, sponsorship, event coverage, product review etc, kindly reach me at lalarahim@hotmail.com

1) You Would Rather Hang With Friends

You love your friends and see them as much as possible. If you don't feel the need to change the way you interact socially with other people, a significant other might complicate things. Consider this, the time you spend with your friends will now be split among your new partner, and his/her friends. You might only see your buds a 1/3 of the time you did before. Are you ready for that?

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#2 It's All About You

Sometimes the best thing for your future relationship is that present day you focuses on itself. Sure, you may be out of college, but are you actually in the "real world" yet? Are you happy with your life, or are you hoping a relationship will fix that for you? If so, you're not ready. Be fair to your next bf and only put yourself out there when you know you're ready.

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#3 Career First

Whether you're in college or just out of grad school, it's paramount that you keep focus on your goals and ambitions. Obviously, success is relative, but you'll know what's right for you. image



#4 Playing The Field

Has it ever occurred to you that perhaps you're not ready to pick just one? This is a completely fair, and all to often never asked question. But if you're not ready to settle down, take this time to date around and figure out what it is you are looking for.


#5 Move Around As You Please

One of the less hyped benefits of single life is the ability to move around whenever you like. This is all 100% up to you. You'll appreciate later on in life. :)

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#6 Love Hurts

Lets be honest, for every happy couple in love, there are two people elsewhere miserably heartbroken. We're not saying it's not worth the reward, simply that you should be prepared for the risk as well. It's not all rainbows and kisses.

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#7 What About Some "me" Time?

From bubble baths, to pigging out on pizza while watching Golden Girls in bed, we all have our sacred rituals we can only enjoy alone. Consider this, when you finally settle down with Mr./Mrs. Right, your alone time will slowly decrease, culminating in the eventual replacement by family time. Enjoy it while it lasts.


#8 It's Just Not For You

Finally, you may just wake up one day and realize that no matter how much you've been told differently, relationships are not for everyone, and certainly not for you. Maybe our role as human beings is evolving. With the world's over population, is it really so bad if not everyone procreates? Maybe single life is simply a new form of commitment. Perhaps in this brave new world, one can commit to happiness, self-love, and independence, without the fear of judgement.

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A tiring week to customize my blog. I designed it by myself anyway. Ya know, look at my archieve. There's only 16 entries on 2013. Haha, nampak sangat tak active it for a long time. What have I done on 2013 eh? Lol I have no idea. So now, the reason why I designed a new theme for my blog is because Im hoping that I wuldnt neglecting my blog nomore.  photo a2.png

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Anyway, this blog is still under construction. I need to do a little touch up for the navigation bar, text header and footer and bla bla bla ape lagi. Okay, do keep in touch with me k. Dont lose hope in me haha, stay tuned 

// Im doing nothing at home, extremely bored. Please rescue me haha.
Orang tu kata, benda yang paling dia takut adalah kehilangan

Tak mengapa. Biar kau hilang semuanya, janji kau tak hilang Tuhan weh. Kerana Allah menghapuskan segala sesuatu yang dia mahu. Jadi bermakna Dia-lah Tuhan yang boleh memberi dan mengambil sesuatu untuk/daripada kita. Bukankah Allah itu Pencipta? Jadi kalau kau nak, minta pada Dia, bukankah dia Pemberi? Ya. Jika kau hilang sesuatu sama ada rela atau pun tak rela. Tak mengapa, biarkan. Rapuh macam mana sekalipun tanpa sesuatu itu, kuatkan juga. Sebab setiap serpihan diri kau yang pecah, kau sendiri yang kena cantum balik. Mungkin, sesuatu yang kau mahu adalah tidak baik bagimu. Contohnya, dengan benda itu membuatkan kau leka atau sakit. Hmm. Tak mengapa, baik untuk kau tinggalkan. 

Rabbi ada.
Aint no. He'll never leave us.
// Aku tak minta yang terbaik, namun aku minta yang baik bagiku. Aku kena belajar menerima takdirnya, suatu hari nanti pasti Allah akan pertemukan sesuatu yang baik itu. Dan aku, kena bersabar.

Yakinlah dengan 3 hal ini:
  1. Tiada yang lebih sayang kepadamu, selain Rabbmu.
  2. Tiada yang paling tahu kegundahanmu, selain Rabbmu.
  3. Tiada yang bisa mengangkat kesulitanmu, selain Rabbmu.
There's a lot thing that I want to say. To him. But I cant speak it out. Dont know why. What's wrong with me, kenape susah sangat nak sebut ni?! Ya know, in this heart. Only God knows. Im fighting with du'a. Pray to have an essence of strength from Him. I know it's my mistake. It's all my fault. Nevertheless, I did this because I dont wanna be part of this game. I dont get what is the purpose of our relation. I dont get of what he want from me. Its scared the hell out of me. Because I dont want to be played. That night, I was crying like.. hm. painful. Surely, this is wrong but who am I to judge? I leave it. I leave everything behind. For the sake of Allah. Let him go. Let him be free. Enough of my existence in his life, unnecessary me. I know he's smiling, he's chilling.. happy so happy. It vice versa to me. Im still lost. Im still feeling unsure. I dont get it. Ok tapi aku taknak ungkitkan kenapa aku diduga. Sebab there's a wisdom why.

Takpe. Lelaki memang begitu.
Moga Allah damaikan hati ini. Itu je aku minta pada Dia.

"Dear you. Do you believe if I say.. I love you? 
I dont want to drag you to something sinful. I dont want us to do any wrongdoings. You know, as long as we are together, there can be anything happen between us. We should be separated from now. Bring our way out. Alone. And be happy. Be safe dear. Because I love you. I dont want this feeling come even worse. Bimbang diri ini terleka. Lebih baik pergi. If we are meant to be together, we will meet soon. In His flow. You dont understand and so do I but one day... kita berdua akan faham kenapa. Tak payah tunggu. Jodoh masing-masing dah ditentukan. Pergilah... pergi jauh."

You know guys... i really hope that I can say those to him. Tapi aku tak mampu...