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I'm Lala Rahim. Blogger based in Malaysia. Just a girl who never stopped to appreciate the beauty above me.

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When dad talk about marriage

by - March 01, 2015
Its Sunday. Tomorrow will be the second week of semester 2. I am so nervous! because day by day will be a lot of assignments to do, especially the most hard is interview people. Tokoh. Me and my partner has already chose who will we want to interview.

For the assignment of "Penulisan Rencana" I may be write about online dating. Technology has revolutionized dating for the 21st century, where the Internet, laptop and mobile phone have become essential for dating tools. These days, it is all about boy meets girl online, boy chats with girl on Whatsapp, boy and girl declare their relationship status on Facebook and stay tuned, hehe.. tapi seriously, I'm out of idea to do this  photo 1706.gif


During my father and I headed back to UPM. He did say about urmm hehe.. marriage and things related to have a partner image. At first dia mention pasal kawan aku and her boyfriend, dah nak berkahwin ke ayah tanya. I said not yet tunggu mereka habis belajar dulu baru berkahwin, tapi kedua-dua belah family tahu they are in relationship from what I've heard from my friend lah. She used to be my berstfriend.

Dedi said, "Senang je kan, habis belajar tak payah nak fikir ape dah, terus berkahwin. Senang mak bapak boleh berehat.."

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Well, he knew that I am single. I know that he wants to have a "rest" you know what I mean. But I gave an excuse to him, "Dilla susahlah ayah.. lebih2 lagi course dilla ni pasal bidang media, apetah lagi kerja sebagai seorang wartawan. Sangat busy."

Itu alasan aku. Busy. Kerja seorang wartawan sebijik macam doktor. Yeahh.. ayah pun faham lah kan.. Setiap kali dia balik nak hantar aku ke UPM, ayah mesti cakap pasal marriage. Macam-macam dia nasihatkan aku pasal nak cari lelaki yang tepat, nak cari suami dan menjadi isteri yang baik.

Seems like I'm going to be single forever je  Sebab aku macam pentingkan kerjaya aku. I think about my parents, I want to make them happy. I want to give what they want first. Of course, I do think about having a relationship, falling in love and get married. Dah bermacam-macam lelaki yang aku kenal tapi belum jumpa lagi yang menyakinkan aku dan yang memberi aku harapan untuk masa depan. Aku fikir for the long-term period tau bukan nak couple putus couple putus. If I have a boyfriend right now, it means that I'm going to take care this relationship until we get married. In conclusion, I have to find the right man. Buruk baik kena terima seadanya. Aku, diri aku sendiri pun terkapai-kapai apetah lagi nak guide pasangan aku. Memang out lah.

Its okay, as long as I have Allah. I hope that He will take care of my spouse, a good man with a good akhlak, and if he did mistakes right now, I hope that he will realize and repent. I want someone that always trying to improvise himself to be better than yesterday. Bukan yang hanyut dalam dunia ni selama-lamanya.. So let's wait for a miracle.

Because the first chance I have is already broken so this time, I give myself a one last chance to choose what is right for me and leave the rest to Allah. What past is past, I'm going to clear up my heart, improving myself better than before, fix my relationship with Allah and then in shaa Allah, may He give something I have never ever imagine.


About The Author

Malaysia Blogger. Assistant Producer at Bernama News Channel. Bachelor's Degree holder in Communication, Universiti Putra Malaysia.

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1 comments

  1. sama lah kita...i think about my parents too. first..i want to make them proud of me. Inshaa Allah, sooner or later.. (:

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