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WELCOME, READERS!

I'm Lala. 8 years in blogging based in Malaysia. English writer. Bachelor's degree in Communication at Universiti Putra Malaysia. Former Radio Presenter at PutraFM and Former Journalist Trainee at BERNAMA. I currently work as Assistant Producer at Bernama News Channel (astro ch 502).

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For advertising, collaboration, sponsorship, event coverage, product review etc, kindly reach me at lalarahim@hotmail.com

Why happy couples don't reveal relationships on social media

by - October 01, 2016
We live in a strange time, when for some people a status on the Internet can have more significance than what’s happening in the real world. We evaluate someone’s life based on the photographs that appear on their Facebook page and what they write about themselves. And we’re often wrong in our judgments.





When people are happy in their relationship, they live in the here and now


If everything’s going well in a person’s life and relationship they just don’t see any sense in wasting time writing posts online to prove this fact to others. It’s not that they never take photos or check their social media feeds, but their lives are already making them so happy that they have no need to be distracted by it.



Any couple that parades their relationship problems online for all to see will gain nothing from it

Revealing all your personal problems to everyone you know on social media is about the least effective method available for solving your issues. It’s only going to make things worse in your relationship.

Real happiness comes from simply being in a happy relationship with someone you love
You’ll gain nothing from posting evidence of how happy you are on your Facebook page. The joy is to be found in being together, not in posting about being together. For people who understand this, constantly posting on social media has little appeal.

No one has to prove anything to anyone
People who are in a truly happy relationship don’t have any interest in using each other to prove how happy they are to others. They’re together because they want to be, and they couldn’t care less whether their page says "in a relationship" or not.



And the most important thing...

Researchers have found that those who don’t use social media are on the whole happier than those who do because they don’t constantly compare themselves with their colleagues and friends — all of whom always appear to be somehow better or happier. We too often forget that all that matters are our real lives, our relationships, our experiences, and our feelings — and not the endless search for popularity online. - Credit by Bright Side.



I'm still in a relationship about 3 years and half with my partner secretly without posting anything about us on social media, neither in this blog which I actually wrote everything about him but I never publish it, I save it as draft. Besides, till now we don't capture a photo together which I really want it to create memories like everybody else, gladly, his loyalty to me is what make me even happier. Nevertheless, when people asking about my current status I am not hesitated to say, "Yes, I'm in a relationship." - Sincerely by me.

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16 comments

  1. agree, especially when we just rant on everything in media lol

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  2. Well, too much perspectives and it's actually our choice. It's not about being happy that makes us stay away from SocMed to live our life more - it's about how we spend our time wisely that we solely won't mind about what others would say "how to be happy". There's no "if you do this you are happy" for them. Happy people are too busy living their life now, and they won't even mind what others would say as they post something about it. If we can't find happiness in others' happiness, maybe we don't really define it the same way. Perspectives, it's okay. Internet, what's new aye.... Oh yes, people are really unexpected.

    Yet true, as how Islam teaches us to stay mediocre, there are always some things we have to keep only to ourselves (:

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  3. Lala.. boleh tahu tak nama font yang lala guna untuk post body? :)

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    1. Alamak dh lupa lah tp ada dekat customize template

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  4. dulu masa awal bercinta mmg semua benda nak tulis kat socmed, lagipun masa tu masih cinta monyet kata org, hahaha. Malu bila baca post dulu-dulu, orang pun cakap kami mesti tak lama. Dah 5 tahun masih madly in love with the same person cuma dah post sgt dah. hahaha.

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    1. hahahha.. i did posting a lot bout my prev r/ship last2 memang tak lama... :')

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  5. agree! especial with "We evaluate someone’s life based on the photographs that appear on their Facebook page and what they write about themselves. And we’re often wrong in our judgments."



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